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Girls who've had difficulties getting/staying hard. What helped?

So I've been on estrogen for 3.5ish years, and projesterone for most of that. I'm about 2 years post orchi. I basically can't top anymore, and I've got two partners that I would very much like to top.

I've tried ~~Sildenafil~~ Cialis in the past, which did basically nothing. Viagra had mixed results, but leaves a huge barrier to spontaneity. I've heard of some girls using topical testosterone creams or gels, but I'm a little afraid of getting other androgenic effects. Kegels haven't done much good, but perhaps I just haven't managed to do them consistently enough.

Have any of you had success with anything you've tried?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Viagra is just a fancy name for Sildenafil. So it's basically the same thing. Rising testosterone level will help but I recommend it only after legal gender change.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why only after legal gender change?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Well it depends on your gender dysphoria. Different people have different levels of dysphoria. I described generic case when you are free from misgendering from government when you don't feel pressure anymore and can reconsider your HRT (but of course it depends on many things).

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