Trans
General trans community.
Rules:
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Follow all blahaj.zone rules
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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
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Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
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I literally came out to my parents about a week ago because of this question. I wish I'd done it sooner because I found that I'd been scared for mostly no reason. Furthermore, turns out 20-ish years of supressed dysphoria is reaaaally bad for your mood, self-worth, screws up your ability to function as a normal person and generally destroys your enthusiasm for life. Got used to it and didn't even realize I was experiencing it but coming out to my parents also caused all of that to come out too.
Uuuhh, anyway, I just kinda figured that, between domestic and foreign spying agencies, the US government probably already knew I was trans, even if my family didn't. As such, there wasn't any reason not to come out anymore; might as well go out waving my flag, yanno?
Yeeeeeah, it'd be nice, except I have the same boss as my dad. And we both sit within 10 feet of the water cooler. In an office full of old white dudes. Who have regularly made the classic sarcastic "i identify as" jokes.
I'm not particularly masochistic, nor do I want to potentially fuck over my own dad's retirement.
I'd rather be living in a different (and non-red) state where nobody knows me or him before I make any moves.
Oof, that sucks. I'm also in a deep red state, but I'm lucky enough to live in a city. It makes me sad that, even within our community, we have such radically different experiences with parents. If my dad was more emotive and my mom was more emotionally stable then I'd probably try roping them into being a mom and dad for the local LGBT and furry communities. Maybe some day.
Pretty sure my mom would be supportive and my dad would be indifferent-ish, just... don't want to deal with backlash in an area where EVERYONE knows him by name. Don't want him to have to deal with people talking behind his back.
Ohio isn't like, the reddest of red, but it's fairly up there. The KKK knows not to do things in public usually, and they get heavily counter protested if they do, and fuck me it's depressing to even be able to type that what the fuck...
Trump flags everywhere, coal-rolling jackasses with giant Trump flags, punisher flags/stickers, etc...