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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My favorite one is when our utility company asks me to donate to help pay for people's utilities like they aren't raking in record amount of cash.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Remember kids, they also get to use the money they guilted off of you to reduce their tax liability because they get credit for donating your money!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is not true. I am not from the US or a lawyer but these donations sould show up on your receipt and count as your direct donation to the charity. The store is just a middleman and does not get any benefit. Here is a random, semi recent article about it you can find a lot more if you look it up online.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They do not, at least in the US.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It depends on exactly what the store is doing.

If the store is representing the extra charge as a donation to a specific charity, generally, the customer can deduct that.

If it's far more vague, like, "Give $10 to help poor kids in Africa" the ultimate destination for the funds could be the company's own ledgers, which it would then use for its own charitable activities and collect the tax deduction, as long as they "help poor kids in Africa."

And some stores are just lying. CVS, for instance, was sued as part of a class action suit when, after the company pledges $10 million to the American Diabetes Association, then collected money from customers to fund that pledge.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Those charities have huge overhead. Very little money goes to the actual cause.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

There are sites to check how much actually goes out. Check before you donate.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Just FYI this is a sort of scam. The company donates the money on your behalf and they get the tax write-off for your donation while also appearing philanthropic for PR purposes. that's why they do it.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Or just...donate the perfectly good food they constantly throw out into the cadged dumpsters designed to keep homeless people out... Litteraly would cost them nothing...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

"But if we feed them then those broke homeless people won't come in and spend their (nonexistent) money on our food!" -upper management

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Shell's audacity too...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

First, please don't link to Reddit...

Many Of The Largest Charities In America Are Giant Money Making Scams
http://thetruthwins.com/archives/many-of-the-largest-charities-in-america-are-giant-money-making-scams

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I hate these donate screens because I have no idea where the donation actually goes and i don't want to have to do a ton of research at the grocery checkout about whether its a good charity.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And I will never ever give these fools my actual phone number for discounts. Just use any area code w/ 867-5309 to get around this.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Jenny Jenny, who can I turn to? You give me something I can hold on to. I know you think I’m like the others before who saw your name and number on the wall

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Those donations you make can help them deduct from taxes, right?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, which is why you should donate yourself if you are inclined to do so.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I think that's a myth as it isn't income it goes into a separate fund to transfer 1:1.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Just wait until you get a tip prompt on a self checkout kiosk...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hate when they pull this shit at drive through fast food. “Would you like to round up to donate to our charity?”

Who knows what the person taking my order thinks about this charity, and what they might do to someone’s food who says no.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I can assure you that nobody working at the fast food restaurant gives a shit if you donate to charity.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah, this really bothers me. Because in reality, that company that you give money to at checkout is just going to bundle that all up and it's a donation in their name, used as a tax write-off. You as the shopper might feel nice and warm and fuzzy, but you're just giving a multimillion or billion dollar company a tax break. Just donate as yourself. If you want to help XYZ cause, do it on your own. My two cents.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

That's not how it works, at least in the US. You are donating as yourself, and can use the donation as a tax write off if you would like.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Thank you for the link. To be clear to anyone too lazy to click (which you should do to verify anyway) this is a source that confirms that businesses don't get to claim your donation as their own.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I didn't know that, and appreciate you saying that. I stand corrected. :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

They cannot and do not use your donations as a tax write off. That's not how taxes work.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

PSA: most Americans can get up to $300 deducted from their annual taxes through donations.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Then they will say it is more efficient to merge the donations with regular revenue and make bulk donations every quarter or something.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I hate when any company I'm buying something from does this.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

To be fair, I bet these companies strike deals with the charitable organizations to in turn raise visibility of those charities among the company's customers.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I don’t trust them to actually donate anyway. How would you ever find out? I suspect these are scams to hold the money and get interest off it even if they do ultimately donate it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not sure if this is 100% accurate, but I heard that how it works is they donate the money first, get the tax write-off and then try to hit people up at the checkouts to refund all the money after the fact. That way they get the tax break for donating the money without actually being out of pocket. I don't know what happens if people donate more than the amount they spent, but I think I can take a reasonable guess.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I think that’s what CVS got busted doing:

https://www.fastcompany.com/90820744/cvs-asks-for-donations-at-checkout-but-are-customers-being-guilted-into-paying-the-pharmacys-debts

“according to a lawsuit filed by a New Yorker, this money is allegedly being used to repay a $10 million commitment that the pharmacy chain has already made to the ADA, unbeknownst to customers. The suit accuses CVS of engaging in fraud and violating consumer protection laws in all 50 states. In essence, it argues, CVS is guilt-tripping customers in the checkout line to reimburse its own charitable donations.”

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I just say no

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Bad example, grocery stores usually have small margins and aren't making a lot of money off of you

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This is actually true. But those small margins add up to a huge profit overall. Still, they probably could not afford to donate $20 per shopper.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's still fine.

Some big international store in europe is asking to buy food from them for full price and donate it to food bank. Fuckin hilarious for making profit on charity.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's so they can get a tax write off for your donation.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This is a lie that I had hoped to leave behind on Reddit but lo and behold it's so pervasive that it transcends social circles.

Repeat after me: that is not how taxes work.

They do not get any monetary benefit from your donations, save for arguably good publicity. They do not claim your donations in their taxes. They do not get extra write offs on their taxes.

Those donations are yours and you could claim them on your taxes, if you were so inclined.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There is a Mastercard ad running during Apple TV+'s MLB Friday's that really goads me.

It's an ad about how "we are powerful indivudually" but can accomplish "anything together". This includes using your Mastercard where they'll donate a SINGLE CENT per purchase (up to $5m, gotta cap it!) to "fight" cancer. And this commercial... yeah, it stuck with me thus did it's job, but as the ad wraps up, with music swelling, all of these people come from nowhere to surround/hug an apparent cancer survivor (wearing the appropriate cancer survivor sweatshirt).

Gross. Just gross. Clearly it's for some tax write off, and technically there's nothing for you to do or spend, other than what you were already going to purchase.

But still, Mastercard could have just donated $5m outright. Or donated the amount of money they spent on that damned commercial, which was probably in excess of $5m given it's high quality production values!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

where they'll donate a SINGLE CENT per purchase

And probably charge the merchant an extra 2c or 3c per transaction.

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