Trans Voice Help

These are paid services, but seem to be legit. I can't vouch for it since I'm not a customer.

Hi all! I recently started voice training, mostly just doing voice exercises to get my unused voice to cooperate a little. But I've run into a problem. I use two SOVTEs interchangeably - lip trills and singing through a straw. Every time I do either there's a constant buzz in my ears and I get headaches after. Is this common? Any advice?

Bunch of random resources people may find useful, will update this post as new resources come along. Mostly from Reddit, any posts have been uploaded as PDFs to read.

[ A Mixture of Different Resources ]

• https://transvoice.party/ - a website that links to some more resources and talks about other stuff

• https://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/getting-started/ - Sumi's wiki. It's got a bunch of stuff with her own spin. Though you can see roots in other things too. You might find it useful.

• https://selenearchive.github.io/ Selene's clips

• https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/1cnqqttn.pdf Some advice on getting started

• https://cramdvoicelessons.blog/ Scinguistics' blog. Their takes are a little bit divergent from the general consensus at times but there is value to be found!

• https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/symceraa.pdf Mimicry advice from Jana

• https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/kcemii5t.pdf Some advice on practicing from Kin Maynard

• https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/5ksjvuak.pdf The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People

• https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/zraqbvzv.pdf Introductory Voice Training Resources Version 2.0

• https://www.undeadvoice.com/guide trans voice mega guide

• https://buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/no-explanations-instructions-feminizing

[ Some useful Videos from Trans Voice Lessons ]

https://www.youtube.com/@TransVoiceLessons/videos Channel link.

https://youtu.be/oWmj73Ttp4E Learn to hear size/resonance better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fylIX28mlyY Practice advice

https://youtu.be/rvet1PwCoGY An ear training live stream

https://youtu.be/imdM3Cea4NA Voice surgery live stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHyVNIcw_XI some common myths

A 261 page book going over voice training. May be helpful to some. Link if you can't access it from the post.

Hi, just wondering if anyone else has a similar struggle as me.

Sometimes when I'm thinking in my mind, I have a voice (I know not everyone experiences this, but it sounds common enough) and this "inner" narrative voice has habituated to a masculine sounding voice.

I have noticed when I'm feeling connected with my gender and it's easier to stick with a feminized voice when speaking aloud (i.e. to others, not internal), my internal voice is likewise easier to be subconsciously feminine as well.

Some days I have a really good gender day and I wake up the next morning and my mind has reverted back to that masculine-sounding voice in my head. This isn't necessarily inherently distressing as much as it can feel invalidating or make me feel doubt and cognitive dissonance, like I am not a valid woman because my unconscious has this masculine voice, or the internal masculine voice makes it harder to feel authentic using my feminine voice. Some mornings I try to consciously make it sound more feminine and that is helpful, but some mornings it can feel overwhelming or difficult to constantly correct that masculine voice, and the practice becomes a bit like when I try to use my feminine voice with others - an exercise that makes me feel inauthentic, fake, performative, and anxious.

So far the only real solution I have to these dual problems of habituation (for inner voice and outer) is to just keep trying and persist. I have a tendency towards perfectionism, which makes me feel constantly like I am failing, and this can lead me to feel less motivated to keep trying. However, I am continuing to make an effort. I find having a weekly speech therapy appointment keeps me engaged in that process, and from letting it drop due to other pressures. It also usually makes me feel extremely affirmed, as my therapist is much happier with my progress than I am, and this usually results in finding using my femme voice easy and natural (though usually this only lasts the rest of the day, again, sleeping seems to reset everything and the next morning I wake up with a masculine voice again).

Was wondering if anyone else has habituated their inner narrative voice, how long it took for them to do that (or if they just stopped noticing or it became less relevant?), and if anyone has tips for overcoming the anxiety of using your voice in everyday situations.

I feel like forcing myself over and over into the situations has been effective in reducing how anxious I feel. Over time it has gone from feeling like I almost physically couldn't do it and a rising panic sensation to now it just feels like a bit of performance anxiety right before and I usually slip into it without too much issue - though sustaining it over a long period when speaking a lot can be challenging, and how anxious I feel seems connected to how confident I feel in my gender.

So to summarize, things that have worked for me:

• noticing masculine inner narrative voice and willfully feminizing it in my head when I notice
• persisting in forcing myself to feminize my voice at work and in public full-time, even when it is terrifying and just continuing to get regular exposure and ignoring the anxiety that is there
• building confidence in my gender with styling my hair, wearing jewelry, putting on makeup, wearing feminine clothes, etc. help a little with getting on-board with using a feminine voice (I think of it as I have to pass to myself before I feel like I can try to pass with others, so finding ways to look more like your gender to yourself to build confidence will help with using your voice)

Wondering if anyone else has experiences to share or advice.

Thank you!

By Alyssavt

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This is focused on mtf voice training, and is a great start in my opinion. FTM resources are much harder to find, because the assumption is that testosterone will thicken your vocal chords. I'll keep trying to find resources for our FTM bros <3

this video helped me a lot, and was my primary reference when starting out with voice training, strongly recommend

This is the new home for help with trans voice training. I'm excited to go on this journey with all of you <3