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I think there's a danger in oversimplifying.
On the one end, some people do have a hard time or maybe even actually impossible time to fight their obesity.
On the other end, a lot of people are dismissive of trying to lose weight and hide behind "body positivity" and "obese people can't help it" when they could really get a lot of results if they actually took it seriously. A relative of mine has been obese for decades, even as the diabetes came on the general take away they had was "apply medicine, keep living how I like". Then when their liver started failing due to the fat and got the prognosis that they were probably going to die in a matter of months, they found the motivation to lose 40 pounds, in the goal of extending their life a little. Now they have what is, by all appearances, a healthy liver again. They also have much better mobility, reduced joint pain, blood sugar that doesn't need medication anymore. Though they are still stuck with a lot of the damage already done, losing weight has been a great boon to their life, and something they always had dismissed as being something other people could do but they were just stuck that way.
Keyword: some. The number of people that actually have a dysfuncional thyroid gland is extremely low to the percentage of obesity in a population, like your example, the majority needs a push since it's more of a mental thing, even therapy can help it.
Well we've had fat hate for much much longer and most attitude about fat by most people is still hate, especially by fat people themselves and that has never helped decreasing obesity.
In your example, it took clear evidence of imminent death to find the motivation to lose the weight.
I would posit that the public hate and self hate about being fat is not helping. And whenever I hear complaints about body posivity around fatness, what I think I'm hearing is the fat hate enforcers being upset at being denied. I imagine they quite like being able to hate freely and feel superior "for a good cause".
I suspect that fat hate has never helped anyone, and probably made things worse.
I think framework of being is a personal moral failing, just doesn't work and perpetuates the problem. Like many other "forever problems" like drug use and homelessness.
I think it's safe to assume that problem that persist through entire lifetimes simply are bno ever going to spontaneously resolve themselves through sheer will power, especially not today where it is being sapped away by commercial interests.
We don't have to abolish the word 'Obese' to avoid 'hateful'. This started with someone being offended at the mere word 'Obese' and elevating it to a racial slur, then a comment saying a lot (likely the vast majority) of obese people can improve their situation.
We shouldn't be mocking and laughing at someone because they are fat, or harping endlessly on it, but it's sufficiently bad that when my doctor saw me being obese, he never directly said anything, just said things like "make sure to eat plenty of vegetables" and "being active really helps people be fit". When Rebel Wilson decided to lose weight, people acted like she somehow betrayed obese people, that she abandoned her role as a model of body positivity.
The pendulum has swung too far to the point where people get too offended at the plain statement of being obese means health issues.
The pendulum hasn't even stopped swinging toward the "more fat hate camp". What you perceive as"too far in the anti hate direction" is merely the begin of slowing down in the more hate direction.
This entire discussion is a ad absurdum attack by the "more hate" camp to counter this slowing down. It is the endlessly repeated clip of the angry blue hair girl of the antisjw craze.
And it's going to take way way more than that to smoke out the hate mongers out of their last refuge.
Correct, so unless you know for a fact you're not talking to one of these people it's probably best to keep your mouth shut.