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To me. They are asking you to propose. If they want to have a conversation there have the fucking conversation. Don’t play games. No one can read minds.
But it doesn’t matter to me either way. I don’t date. I won’t date. I’m done with dating. And I will never get married.
It's not always playing games.. some people also just come out and say it.. others will mask it with a joke... but then the conversation needs to be had. Not always full serious.. we need to talk.. but this is a good cue. As the other poster said .. for both your sakes.
Hope you are OK.. don't know how to read your "I'm don't with it".
cue, not queue ...
Regardless of what they are asking, you should have that conversation for your own sake, not just theirs. Though I'd also argue that if you are going to get married, you should want to do it for their sake, too. And if you resent them for not speaking their mind, don't marry them.