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Did you get baseline blood-work to know your hormone levels (estrogen and testosterone) before starting HRT? That's what my endo did.
I thought I might have had XXY as well (I had a much delayed puberty, relatively large breasts, very little body hair, etc.) and had my karyotype tested but I did not have XXY, so ... I now wonder if I might have a mild androgen insensitivity syndrome, maybe caused e.g. by long CAG repeats on the AR gene which is a commonly genetic mutation in trans women and would impact the functioning of the androgen-receptor.
Either way, it seems there is a huge amount of variation in the ways people respond to HRT, some trans women actually have worsened gender dysphoria related to their body when they take estrogen. To make matters more complicated, the routes of administrations, whether people take anti-androgens, whether people take progestins or progesterone, and so many other factors in how HRT is administered create even more variables.
FYI I think I was at tanner stage 3 around 6 - 8 months of subq EV injections.
I wanted to get tested to see my starting levels, but my endo said it wasn't necessary so I didn't get one.
I really appreciate the information about androgen insensitivity syndrome, this my first time hearing of it, and I think it's quite possible that I could have it.
I usually hear about Complete Androgen Insensitivity (CAIS) like the intersex activist Alicia Weigel who has CAIS.
I don't see as much discussion about Mild (MAIS) and Partial (PAIS) versions. I suspect I could have MAIS, though that's entirely speculative, grasping for explanations that could just be as simple as "normal variation".
I would like to get genetic testing to find out if my AR gene is one of these common variants found in trans women or not.
There are many ways to get to the same outcomes, biology is wildly complex.