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[–] [email protected] 91 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Like for real!! I was a semi-lurker on reddit. Posted a couple times a year.

I just passed 500 posts on Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I've found lemmy to be alot less hostile, don't care about downvotes, but attacking people because of opinions doesn't sound like a fun time to me

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The absence of a running karma total is a surprisingly powerful difference. I do still look back at old posts, and it's nice when there's votes, but without the little number next to a name or when I mouse-over a profile, there's no motivation to be the first in a thread to repost a cliche joke or to ragebait for fake internet points.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think the “not having to be first” is what is so powerful.

I know that if I comment on a post from a few days ago on a populated community, I’ll likely at least get a reply from OP, if not a bunch of other people finding my comment and replying as well.

It’s like Lemmy is the nice, small-town version of Reddit (which is probably more similar to Gary Indiana).

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s a bit cruel to Gary, Indiana, don’t you think?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hated most of those cliche jokes. Here I am looking for real conversation only to be met with thousands of not witty low effort jokes.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Lemmy definitely has a more chill, human vibe than I got with Reddit, given how overrun the latter was with vast armies of shills, bots, alt right trolls, etc.

Not that it's all rainbow-pooping unicorns frolicking through flowery meadows here but at least the dick comments tend to be much rarer and often a one off for the person making them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Opinions are fine. Being disingenuous/an asshole at the same time as having an opinion definitely provokes smackdowns, even on lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Same goes for 9gag but that site is different

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Huh, when I clicked on your profile it says 0 posts...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Profiles are rarely accurate. I viewed the same profile from two different instances (yes the same profile, not the same username from two different instances) and they didn't even have the age of thr account the same. One was 2 years, one was 2 months. So I wouldn't trust that. I'd only trust it if you're logged into that very instance.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

In this case it's more likely to be because that's one of my alts. This is my main.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Read the bio. That's not my main. This is.