Absolutely zero. I'm 57 and all my close friends don't live in NZ. That means I only really have work acquaintances, which aren't real friends (as nice as they are).
Sure there is the occasional beer here and there, but that's about it.

So I surround myself with my hobbies. I have a lathe, a milling machine, and a ton of tools. I make stuff, I fix stuff ( for me and other people). I also have my bicycles, so when I'm not in my workshop I'm out on one of my mountain bikes (not electric! I like to pedal). I like my own company.

But, jeez, it would be nice to have a close mate nearby. I only have myself to blame for not trying harder, which leads me to the problem I have... My personal feeling is I fear others will see my trying to make friends as a sign of desperation. How can he get to 57 and not have friends? He must be creepy....

So I ride a bike. Then I wash it. Then have a beer. LOL

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But are you creepy?

I'm 43, I realised that is I didn't put some effort in, I'd not have any friends close by.

You sound like are interesting character, join your local mountain bike club. The club here in taupo is very active with members of all ages. I'm sure wherever you are there will be a club.

Your interest in engineering will give you a lot to talk about.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Wife says I'm not creepy. I don't think I'm creepy.

You're right. I should join a club.