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How old were you? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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How old were you when you began questioning/considering you weren't "normal"? I'm in my 30s and almost all at once feel like I'm not sure what I am in most demensions and struggling to figure out what I feel about anything. I've been married, happily for a while, which adds a little to the confusion.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I was a better educated child then I would have known sooner. But around 16 I knew/accepted I was bi.

I was taught that either you're gay or "normal" ๐Ÿซ 

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I grew up with you're normal, or you're wrong. And teaching that people just exist have have different feelings about things was indoctrination. I've been undoing that for years and thought I had been accepting on some level for years, but maybe it wasn't enough til now.