this post was submitted on 10 Jul 2023
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That's their thing. You don't take your new partner to the spot where you fell in love with your ex. That's just weird.
That seems like a weird comparison...
Hey, when a banana is involved with love, there is nothing weirder, and more beautiful.
Not so sure about nothing weirder...
I'd most certainly do that if that spot was simply a romantic location I enjoyed, and it wouldn't be weird unless I also kept talking about my ex.
"Look, honey, I know a spot that's great, but we can't go there because I used to go with my ex and I don't like bringing up my ex everytime like my ex did, you don't deserve that because you're more than her"
I think I'd feel weird even if she doesn't know about it. I'd also probably avoid calling her by her name just in case.