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I’ve noticed my hair thinning and hairline receding since I was about 25 or so.

I’ve been using Collagen and Biotin “thickening” shampoo but never noticed any difference. My dad swears by some pills he started taking.

What’s Lemmy think? Is he just paying for pills that are placebo effect?

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Okay, I'm here to help.

Shave.

Seriously. The amount of pressure put on guys around balding is horrendous, and it can consume your attention if you let it. The moment that superfluous, vestigial hair comes off, it's such a breath of fresh air (no pun intended). No more fussing, worrying or stressing about it. Plus, in many cases it looks pretty good. Give it a couple of weeks and it'll just become your face.

Give it a couple of months and the moment there's a scratchy, annoying milimeter of hair on your head will be a natural call to give it a shave for the comfort alone.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

or don't. My ex was balding and never bothered me. It may bother.some ppl but tbf what doesn't? There is alwas a problem, too tall, too short, short dick, dick too big, to fat, too skinny

There will always be someone that doesn't like something about you, no matter who you are. Just accept it and be free

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Absolutely, and if you can't take the plunge on either do whatever feels right.

But I'll say if you're anxious about it at all, shaving is a good way to not have to think about it. Not everybody has an easy time just getting over the way they look and not giving a crap, obviously.

Plus if you're worried about your hairline, going to get a haircut can be a stressful time and shaving means getting it out of the way. And it's super cheap and fast by comparison.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My life has been unduly burdened because of my “dick too big” problem. So many don’t understand my plight.

Pray for me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Believe me I have heard woman runing away from men because their dick is too big. And..as a woman i would say this is actually kind of problematic. Vaginas are not infinite holes... it has an ending

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Eh I’ll consider it, but I like my hair for now. If it gets to a point where I look dumb I’ll shave. But I also have a humungous head. Like literally 99th percentile lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

If you're slowly losing it but like how it is now, finasteride is exactly what you want if you're alright with taking a pill forever. There are of course side effects but it's worth talking to a doctor about if you think hair loss will be something you don't want to accept.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago

I use topical Minoxidil. It's clearly made some difference, replacing a bald patch with a thin patch, and making my scalp noticeably warmer to the touch due to the extra bloodflow. It wasn't the brilliant instantaneous wonderdrug some people told me it would be, nor totally ineffectual like others said, so I guess it's something whose efficacy varies from person to person.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

The Big 3 are: Hair Transplant, Hair Systems, or Shaving.

The Medium 3: are Oral Dutasteride, Oral Minoxidil, and Microneedling.

The Small 3: are Oral Finasteride, Topical Minoxidil, and Ketoconazole.

The Meh 3: are Head Massage, Vitamins, and Laser Caps.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

I think the thickening products just try to coat your hairs in oil or something to make each individual hair appear thicker to make the overall hair appear more full.

There are products like minoxidil that actually promote hair growth.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

As per my cosmetologist friend, those thickening products are great! At thickening the wallets of the company.

They're not any better than a good conditioner.

Same with the pills that aren't prescription.

It's not that they don't do anything at all, it's that they don't do anything a healthy diet and decent hair care can't do. Now, if your diet is shit, those supplements can fill gaps. And, if you're using shit hair products (and by that I don't mean inexpensive, it's about how they're made and what's in them), those extras can help if you're willing to pony up for them instead of finding a good sulfate, paraben free products.

Seriously folks, just avoiding sulfates will improve the health of your hair. Parabens are more about overall health, what with cancer suspicions. Phthalates aren't great either. Shit with "ethicone" as part of the name are bad for hair, but you don't really see them on shampoos much any more.

In general, everyone should look up the chemicals in anything they put on or in their bodies, there's a lot of shit used as preservatives or for other uses in cosmetics and skin/hair products that really shouldn't be in them.

But for basic hair care, sulfate free is likely to be on the packaging in big letters, so that's easier to find. Parabens aren't always advertised the same way, but can be. So avoiding one or both of those requires no more effort than looking at the bottle.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's a lot of people that get their balding stopped with DHT blockers. It all depends on what is causing the hair loss. It isn't all snake oil.

Most of what you're recommending is just stuff to treat the dead hair after it grows out of your head, and not treating the follicles no longer growing hair.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Any recommendations on brands?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Minoxidil and finasteride will prevent further hair loss and thicken up what you still have. I highly recommend them.

Finasteride is a hormone based therapy which prohibits the production of DHT which strangles hair follicles, but it can effect male reproductive health so I recommend taking it typically instead of orally to prevent systemic exposure.

I have been using a combo spray for almost a year with great results.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Ive been taking oral 1 mg finasteride daily for a few years, and it has totally frozen my receding hair line, also my hair is fuller and healthier than it has ever been. No side effects yet, other than during the first week or two I couldn't feel pleasure while ejaculating (but it came back after that). I'll stop taking it if I ever try to conceive but for now it's just nice being able to delay hair loss by a few years

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Before you get into products or transplants or whatever, maybe try changing some habits? American College of Dermatology has an article on 10 things you may be doing that lead to damage or hair loss (along with what you can change to do it "right"). "Wrong" things include rubbing your hair dry with a towel and using the wrong-size comb.

Article here.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I started using Rogaine (generic versions) when I was around 25. I’m 40 now. It slowed my hair loss considerably and I have a pretty good head of hair still. My dad was completely done by 35.

I recently added Finasteride to the mix and I’m comfortable with the results.

Some people will tell you to embrace it and that’s ok too. I just didn’t want to if I didn’t have to.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Please don't take it as an offense, but how do you know it worked? Like, what are you comparing against? If it's your dad, maybe you just got the right genes from your mom to give you a benefit.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I started thinning rapidly in my early 20s which prompted me to act. Within a few months the thinning stopped and in the back I’ve been about the same since. Front started thinning a few years ago which prompted the finasteride and that seems to be slowing it.

I don’t know for sure, you’re right, but I also see no incentive to prove my experience wrong since the risk isn’t worth it, to me.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

DHT blockers (like what he is taking) are proven to work, but not everyone's hair loss is due to dht sensitive hair follicles. That's a genetic lottery.

It can also come with side effects.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I was looking for this comment before I went posting it. Finasteride + minoxidil is where it’s at.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

There no point holding onto hair when it's really gone. It looks worse than shaving it. Unless you want to pay for hair transplant use need min and fin.

People with hair transplants need to go on finesteride anyway.

I think if you are beginning to bald. Might as well go on finesteride and minoxidil.

They are both proven to work (though not for everyone).

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

It's all bollocks. You'll can buy your hair back like Musk, but it takes fuck you money.

Shave it off. That's how poor people look good when they're balding. It's not a disease. Throw off the shackles of the advertising industry and just roll with it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (3 children)

For what it's worth, there's decent evidence that rosemary oil works just as well as Minoxidil. It's certainly a WHOLE LOT cheaper....

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/319444

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

It's also much safer to use around cats than topical minoxidil is!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Essential oils are still pretty bad for cats.

Essential Oil Toxicity in Cats

The reason why these oils are risky is that they contain compounds such as terpenes, ketones, and phenols. Your cat’s liver cannot metabolize these chemicals, as it doesn’t have the enzymes necessary for processing and excreting them. As a result, there is always a possibility of their accumulation in the liver building to toxic levels.

https://www.webmd.com/pets/cats/risks-of-essential-oils-for-cats

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I’d probably use the pills regardless, but good to know! I have two cats!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Looking on Amazon the price per liter ranges seem very similar to Minoxidil, maybe a little cheaper. First glance the cheapest Minoxidil product I could see was around 111€ / L, the cheapest rosemary oil bottles seem to be about 80€ / L - probably because most are sold as "essential oils". That being said, it seems you're supposed to further dilute the oil so I guess it would last quite a bit longer. Still, from what I heard you need to continue to use that stuff or you'll lose the gained hair again.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I started balding in my late teens. Shaved my head for the first time at 20. Never looked back. Wished I'd done it sooner.
Still remember an offhand comment from a girl who said I have a nice shaped head.
A quick once over with the clippers once a week and you're good.
Whatever you decided to do don't stress about it! I'm sure that will only make it worse.
Bonus: the freshly shaved head acts as velcro to keep your hat on during windy days!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

See I have a lumpy awful shaped head but thankfully I'm 37 with thick full hair still, so I might be in the clear

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Kind of. I've never bothered with them myself because it requires constant use and is kind of more trouble than it's worth. It's the same concept as something like Ginko Biloba in that it does have benefits, but different people will see different results based on their own body chemistry so the results you see will vary from person to person.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've never tried any. My friends have been telling me since the '60s that I'd be bald tomorrow. Still have hair, and though 'see through' on top, there's no 'dome'; I'm not bald.
That being said, I went from long-ish hair to brush cuts 40 years ago, and they're the best. Lowest maintenance, wash 'n wear, never care. True freedom.

Free yourself from the wear and tear of hair care.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

You, sir, are a poet. And now we all know it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

...finesteride works, not a placebo...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

No product here, more like an advice. Instead of trying to thicken your hair, just embrace what's happening. You will save a lot of time and money.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Not really, but some drugs can help. Minoxidil, either topical or oral, can help for some people, but it's hit and miss. Finesteride works for a lot of people, but there's a 3% chance that you permanently lose your libido, and your penis shrinks. I'm not going to play with that, despite the low odds. As for appearance, Topik powder actually does make it look better. That combined with a fibrous hair paste can hide the loss for a time. Otherwise, a trip to Turkey and a few grand can reset the clock, but it'll probably be required again at some point.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

No but they can make amazing sauces.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Yes....or no. There's more than one reason for balding. You might try a DHT blocker. Caffeine(more caffiene helps, supposedly), vitamin B, and many other things could effect your hair loss.

For a non guessing approach, you want a full blood panel and testosterone/dht level done up at a legit specialist for hair loss.

Or just go the Mr.Clean route.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

AFAIK you can only slow down hair loss, not regrow any lost hair.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

No there are no thickening products that fix hair loss. Monoxadil and other similar products work but you can never stop using them or your hair will fall out again.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If possible, save up for a trip to Turkey. My barber 1/2 jokes about it, says its like $6k, includes airfare, and are all inclusive. Turkey has entire villages that have become dedicated to cosmetic surgeries, like hair transplants. Some of them filled with men walking around with their head in bandages 😅

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

So we can add to the list now?

Turkey Teeth

Turkey Tits

Turkey Toupee?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I think Minoxidil is the only thing proven to work. You can take it orally or apply it to the scalp via a serum or shampoo.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

the only thing that works is finding out if you have nutriotional deficencies. minerals, vitamins. protein fat, and fiber. all of this is important. in my case, i had diabetis. so i ate keto. i developed copper deficencie, which led to vitamin c deficencie. very hard to find out. many vitamins and minerals battle each other. what nobody totld me: you dont need fiber to have good poop. you need it for the short fatty chain acids that turns into fuel for cells, or does catalyst stuff that needs be doing to absorb all kinds of things.

fat is essential for hair, likewise proteins. proteins and fat are the building blocks, minerals and vitamins are the cement. nothing will work without the other.

oh yeah you need the sun. if yu have copper deficency, you cant take in iron. and there is many more things like that.

so go to a lab and mak a mineral and vitamin profile.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I'm in my early 30s and started taking hims about a year ago. I've definitely seen regrowth of hair in my slightly receding hairline, but it's just the more 'recent' stuff that had started falling out. I saw about a third of an inch regrowth, it isn't full on thick regrowth but it's enough to make a difference in how my hair looks.

I started taking it because it was as easy as just taking a pill in the morning, if it had been more involved like creams and stuff I wouldn't have bothered. My hairline wasn't all that bad either before tbh but I figured this product was to help keep it that way so I went for it.

If anyone is interested it's worth checking out their website for information about how it works and seeing before and after pics of people who take it.

It's a doctor prescription and you can do everything through the app including getting prescribed through in app texting with the doc.

I've also heard biotin pills help, these are otc and my hims prescription actually include some too. I can't verify how much they help by themselves but people online seem to think they do, it might be worth starting with some research there if a doctors prescription is too involved for you at this time.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

balding < bald

just shave it. get a buzz cut if you're uncomfortable. i know once my hairline starts receding i won't try to kid myself by spending money on temporary fixes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I'm the first guy in my family to actually have facial hair and the first one to start balding haha. My dads hair is pretty thick and he gets a tiny mustache. My grandpa's hair wasn't bad before he passed away in his 90s and really nothing for facial hair. Never met my great grandpa but he was chickasaw and the few pictures I've seen he has very thick hair.

In the next few years it'll be to the point where I start shaving. It's right on top where it's getting really thin and I'm 6'2" so most people don't actually see it. The other day at a self check out it thought I didn't scan something and showed a top down camera view and I was like damn that's bad.

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