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I had joined Reddit twice in my lifetime but was not actively using it, and maybe that’s the reason I’m not very familiar with this forum culture.

I would say that Lemmy is by far the most responsive SNS in terms of the community engagement that I’ve ever used.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 week ago (4 children)

We all feel a responsibility to be active here ngl. So many of us have made new communities we wanted and just keep posting there to grow communities.

My total activity on only this one Lemmy account is more than all my social media ever combined. And thats just one of my 7 Lemmy accounts.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I feel like it has something to do with the fact that there's less content, so when you post something, it's actually going to be seen by people.

I didn't post or comment anything the last couple years on Reddit, largely because it increasingly felt like shouting into the void.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah Lemmy is a smaller more intimate community. In fact I'm sure we've interacted before. Thats just the nature of the platform (and a positive).

Also why I don't really agree with people who think the number 1 goal of Lemmy is to grow.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Even if Lemmy outgrew reddit, that small-scale vibe could still be maintained very easily by any specific community with the federation tools.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

The only reason I want Lemmy to grow is because I miss having niche video game communities with more than a dozen members :c

Discord is increasingly filling that role now, but there are a large number of reasons why I'm not really a fan of that as a replacement.

Mostly I just want to talk about the new Factorio expansion with everyone...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Insane effort. 🫑

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

7 Lemmy accounts is a LOT! is that for separate instances, or what gives?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Yeah 7 different instances. I make communities on relevant instances and not just dump everything on lemmy.world.

Honestly I've focused most of my efforts in [email protected] and [email protected]

One where I've posted nudes. (Didn't think I could ever do that until I did.) REALLY dedicated to Lemmy yknow.

Edit: 8 accounts, 8 total communities on 4 of them. One community I've given up on :(

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Whoa, I'd be careful sharing that you did that, it's still the internet. But maybe I'm being overly careful.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

I think people are more encouraged to participated on lemmy than they are on reddit. I used to be able to make posts on a reddit community of 10s of thousands and never get a response. It almost never takes more than a few minutes here. Moreover, Reddit is spilling over with bots and has been for years and the responses you'd get to a post or comment are often obiously reflective of this.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

There's no better way to stifle a discussion than to see there's 10k+ replies already. Pissing in an ocean of piss.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

It will never not be funny to me how .world, the largest instance, preemptively defederated with Hexbear the most content rich and antithesis of reddit instance on here despite everyone supposedly fleeing reddit because of how the corporate overlords had "ruined it" (it was always shit) and ours being one of the few instances dedicated to dunking on capitalism and understanding its malevolent machinations.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Can’t agree more.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

It takes a little more effort to make an account and even know that lemmy exists. That probably dissuaded a lot of casual creepers.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's what got me hooked into lemmy for good after being seriously sceptical for the first few tries.

Little to no comments on most posts was worrysome compared to the absolute flood of content on Reddit. But when I comment here, I get replies. And these replies feel like they matter.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Yeah, I also can feel the sense of belonging here.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Great, I guess, but this is in no way a question.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I sort by new and most posts are not trash as they were on reddit. Things don't need 50k up votes to be valuable. Lemmy as a platform was the perfect blend of old school forms and reddit. Im just sad it took so long that people forgot how the internet is supposed to work.

It's like they get email is [email protected] but for anything else they say that's too hard. Hell even when I give my email they just assume Gmail. I swear Web 2.0 was a cancer.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Exactly mate. Social media era was to toxic.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Those of us who were on the net in the 90s, we had to make accounts for every forum / community site we wanted to use, it wasn't a big deal. Nowadays if you go over to reddit, they're convinced any site you have to create an account for is doomed to fail. Even one like this one, which similar to email, connects you with a wider network outside of the one you signed up on.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Exactly I would say the only thing that I find could improve the fediverse would be the adoption of open ID that way we could login to any instance of lemmy or mastodon using our home insurance. But I could be missing an obvious flaw with that.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Its a great community, reddit kinda feels like a giant automated cashflow farm, here it feels more like a village square! (For now)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I personally would prefer to not to post/moderate on reddit so the assholesin charge can make money off of what I do.

Lemmy is amazing. we can always switch to a new instanc and still use Lemmy if the one we are on turns into what we left behind. Also more moderator transparency. At the bottom of every page is a link to the mod log. You can even filter by user. Feel free to type my name. I'm sure I've gotten something by now.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

So do you think with the mass adoption in the future will ruined Lemmy just like Reddit?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

You can switch to a new instance and still stay on lemmy. You can even join certain instances that defederate with other instances they (rightfully or otherwise) deem problematic.

Good luck in your search for your digital commune that best reflects your values. Maybe you're already there and you don't know it yet. Peace either way, welcome aboard.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I believe that any location that has eyeballs for advertisers or propagandists will always eventually be ruined for greed or power. The question is how long it will take. Even with careful moderation, slip up happens, corruption is slowly allowed, and special interests will seek to sway popular opinion in one way or the other.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I like Lemmy, but it can be a very one-sided experience. If youre not in to tech or left wing politics you'll probably find little to engage with.

Edit: I guess the memes are pretty good too

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Need a mass adoption for that.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I feel like Lemmy is substantially less combative. Reddit has become so very hostile over the years and every thread felt like someone was about to start a fight. Not that there isn't any here, but there feels like a normal amount, rather than an over-representation of people spoiling for a fight.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I've said this exact thing a dozen times on here. Any time I'd get a reply notification on reddit, I'd go into it prepared for another senseless confrontation. I would fight with so many people on that platform, and I swear it made me an angrier person. Here, I still go into it half expecting the hostility, but replies are always in good spirit and pretty level-headed. I don't fight with people on Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Lemmy is substantially less combative.

That may depend on the community.

I have the opposite experience. I mostly post in niche communities on Reddit, and I find I'm ignored or get positive replies. On Lemmy I get responses, but odds are even that the response is snarky or bitchy.

I hope that will improve as the user base grows and we get more niche communities here.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

What's an SNS?

Edit: Social networking service (probably)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Exactly mate. South Korean, East and Southeast Asian generally use that term to refer to social media.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (3 children)

This is not even a question. Please read each community’ guidelines before posting.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It feels like a fresh start. Gotta be excited about that, right?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Absolutely, mate.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah I've noticed that almost every post and comment seems to get at least some engagement here, whereas on reddit it's very common to make a post/comment that no one ends up seeing.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

It feels like we meet and greet in the real world here.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Since you're not familiar with this forum culture, asklemmy is used to ask questions. You did not ask a question.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

This isn't a qu-- actually you heard that already (Λƒ . Λ‚ΛΆ)

I can definitely attest to the culture, which is fresh air compared to a lot of networks (e.g. that Draw a Duck post is probably far beyond a lot of platforms' capabilities/proclivities)

I think some of it boils down to:

  • The Lemmy Algorithm. This is a big flaw with Reddit -- people have the attention span for the first ten comments, and then subcomment upvotes halve (with decent std. dev -- we aren't Zipf's Law devotees there) until invisibility. I don't think my Reddit comments are even seen, let alone replied to. But here, new comments have a chance.
  • The sense of "mineness". As another here said, there's responsibility to raise your communities right, and another to interact (hence, variably lower hostility). I don't post much but I respond a lot to the people who comment in them, because I feel that I have to contribute to keep this sanctum humanly alive.
  • At risk of sounding self-absorbed/elitist, the entry level. People are here because they were dissatisfied with the state of other sites, then made a jump; this is a sieve that to an extent increases the standard of sorting by new. (This has limitations of course, and it isn't necessarily advocating for Lemmy to never be mainstream.)

Just my conjectures Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

What a great take from you, Mr. Fool. You’re definitely not fool. 🀣

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Albeit Lemmy can too be a bit of an echo chamber at times, I find, in general, that the platform as a whole is way more open minded, and by extention, its users too, than or over Reddit.

Which their bias on most subs and janny overreach became, specially in the last few years suffocatingly annoying. Coming here was refreshing in comparison.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Don't forget to try sorting by comments instead of posts! I often forgot that button exists.

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