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as a reddit refugee i mostly use lemmy, but sometimes i go back by a lack of alternative to some subreddit, which one you feel there is a need ?

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Lemmy currently lacks the userbase for niche, specific communities, or subregional communities

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yep. It's never an issue to fill a message board with memes and cats, the hard part is filling the niche communities. I hope it gets there.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fingers crossed that they come eventually.

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really miss r/askhistorians

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

oh i feel this so hard. i hope the mods are collating their best answers and saving the info to somehow bring over here.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You should send the mods a mail to see if they have any Lemmy plans. It's worth it just to know. Sometimes they don't have a plan but they do know of a good alt community for you to try out

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)

OP, please don't go making empty ghost communities based on the feedback here. That would be worse than no community at all. Communities should be created by topic enthusiasts.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Lots of individual game subs

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yeah, sadly I don't think we're at the size required to make a vibrant community for all but the biggest games. I miss the Oxygen Not Included sub most.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feell like that the problem is just discovery

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I agree, the communities are going started but there’s no way to organically find them

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

One that I miss is "r/sex" for discussions and support about sex.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

r/Sex is a good one, however 90% of questions could be answered by "talk to your partner". I'll agree that it is a positive community for general discussion about sex though.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

It shows that these are the communities of geeks, doesn't it

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

There are enough communities, there just aren't enough posts and comments.

Most posts on the communities I see are just links with one or two comments.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

r/HumansBeingBros is what I miss a lot... or am I missing something...

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

come July 1st, i think you'll find a lot of people making that final push to come over here, try to figure out what the fediverse is, and moderate (or create from whole cloth) the communities they used to have. i certainly don't have the time nor expertise to moderate any community, but i know lots of folks will come over here. July is gonna be huge.

now fix the bot problem and we're gonna be ok.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'll say it for everyone (and myself), NSFW communities. Reddit is still effectively king for that, at least for now.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There is a fair few out there, one main issue is that you can't even get a list of nsfw communities without being logged in on the instances they're created in.

IIRC the only instance that patches that check out and is remotely discoverable because of it is lemmynsfw. Whatever communities other instances have are basically hidden to all but the select few who know about them / have an account there and goes to look them up.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

I look at it as Lemmy isn't large enough to support smaller communities unless they come here as is.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Programming Languages and Compilers. To be clear: The former exists on programming.dev, but there's a serious lack of activity.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Be the activity you want to see in the world

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy drama, I want to gossip about other communities and read people fighting for stupid shit.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (6 children)

personally i'm missing all the horror content. there's a nosleep replacement here that's gaining traction but stuff like /r/wtf, /r/oddlyterrifying, /r/creepywikipedia etc are sorely missed right now

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Something I think is genuinely useful about Reddit that I don't know if Lemmy has replicated yet is the whole genre of "The entire world is here, someone will recognize what you're talking about" subs. What is this thing, what is this bug, tip of my tongue, tip of my joystick, ask historians, ask mechanics...I'm not sure we've established that brain trust here.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I miss some dedicated meme subreddits:

  • prequelmemes
  • sequelmemes
  • lotrmemes

They were always good for a laugh.

Oh! And highqualitygifs.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

r/frogs and r/orphancrushingmachine

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

r/orphancrushingmachine

I... What? Do I want to know?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's a a send-up of the supposedly "feel-good" stories about people that go above and beyond to make the horrors of some societal problem (usually capitalism) less horrifying for somebody. Like, when a child holds a 48 hr lemonade sale marathon to erase the lunch debt of his/her peers. Yeah, it's a nice thing to do, but it should NOT be necessary.

The idea is that we would see stories talking about how great this person is for slowing down an orphan crushing machine, without questioning the need for an orphan crushing machine in the first place.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

For me economics, finance, and investing subs are the ones that I got back for. Other than that most of the subs that I liked are mostly here

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I really miss r/hfy (Humanity, Fuck Yeah!) A sub which writes about humans doing awesome shit in space etc.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Lovecraft and Cthulhu Mythos

Creepypasta

SCP

Web Novels

Light Novels translation

Anime and Manga

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Intellectually, I think lemmy already has a good grasp on topics...but I do miss the daily video content of r/crazyfuckingvideos, r/publicfreakout, and r/idiotsincars.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Someone did make goblincore, but it’s still mostly empty and I’m not talented enough to contribute lol

I loved looking through all the mossy green nature pics, tiny ecoscapes, mushrooms, frogs, and forest-witch style craftsmanship from people much more creative than myself

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

An easier way to link communities. It was so simple on reddit just typing r/sub but here it's more complicated

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just from the top of my head r/BoneAppleTea and r/AmITheAsshole

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Both of these are on lemmy.world. Might not be quite as much content yet though.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dog stuff. I haven't found any dog communities and I weirdly miss reading about dog grooming.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I think I've found most of the communities here that I subscribed to when I left reddit. There are a couple I wish were here or more active.

Daddit was a great group of dads that were supportive and welcoming where we could vent, share memes, and just have general discussions about being a dad. They were really welcoming of moms too, as there's not always a dad present for the kids.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I miss Warhammer 40k lore and memes.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm into conspiracies and occultism, while Reddit wasn't perfect in that regard, I would enjoy either one having a bigger presence

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

β€œr/matt”

As a Matt, r/matt was a community for us Matt’s to do what us Matt’s do. I’m a little β€œhomeless” here on Lemmy, but I get by.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

If anyone is missing curly hair content, I have a community at [email protected].

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not sure but, a community for posting scientific articles and discuss about it.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Parenting communities. The culture can be very hit or miss, but that might apply to most communities. I just want somewhere to commiserate with others without any judgment or the usual dramatic bullshit.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe you need to create dadly or kdadbin?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The average person won't jump through these hoops just trying to subscribe to a community. I can clearly see them on a list, but still not able to join a bunch from my instance (lemm.ee). Are they too small? Nobody from my instance on them? Whatever.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

I think that if there is no one from your instance (which also happens to be my instance) is subscribed to a community on an instance other than your own then you have to search for it in the search bar (using the url or !community@lemmyinstance) before you will be able to interact with it. Lemmy doesn’t synchronize everything between all instances by default, only what is needed to save on resources.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Someone did make goblincore, but it’s still pretty empty and I’m not creative enough to meaningfully contribute.

I loved looking through all the happily amateur mossy green nature pics, tiny ecoscapes & terrariums, all the mushrooms, frogs, and foresty crafts & creations from people much more talented than myself.

The issue isn’t that the rooms don’t exist in this house, but more that the smaller niche ones are still just a couple shy people early to the party, waiting for the extroverts to show up lol

/running /bikewrench & /cycling /askscience & /science /autisticwithadhd /onguardforthee /ontario /kingstonontario /ontariogardeners /canadianinvestor /cozyplaces /ifyoulikeblank /notthebeaverton /oddlysatisfying /plantclinic /renovations

Also Select a Set was a very cool little music themed sub that I enjoyed participating in.

…

/scrungycats!

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