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[–] [email protected] 168 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I also love being there for my girlfriend to tie her shoe laces!

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago

As long as the shoes don't smell...

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[–] [email protected] 119 points 1 year ago (25 children)

I don't want to sound like an incel, and I like eating vag/salad as much as the next guy, but imagine this image with the genders reversed

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

IMO either party doing this is fine as long as it's discussed and within the comfort bounds of the people in the relationship.

I think the problem is an expectation when there has been no discussion about whether or not it's within someone's limits.

[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 year ago (14 children)

I have no issue with oral sex between consenting adults. But this meme would not be as well received if the genders were reversed. It's hard to even imagine someone posting "always be there for your man in a time of crisis" with the woman going down on the guy.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I can only speak for myself but I wouldn't really mind it the other way around as long as there's no implied use of force or manipulation.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Feel free to reverse the genders & post this on twitter then. Getting banned from the internet speedrun any%

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I believe "consenting" is key here.

The reason why it's taboo if the genders were reversed is because there is a long and well documented history of non-consent when genders are reversed.

Was there non-consent where gals are forcing guys? Very likely. However what evidence I've seen suggests this is dwarfed by guys forcing gals.

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes i imagined it, very nice. Whats the next step?

[–] [email protected] 65 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I love you and I'm saving this.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I agree that it would look quite different with the genders reversed. However, gender equality is not like mathematical equality, where every situation needs to be reversible.

Women have traditionally been less sex-positive and less dominant, which many consider indicators of a lack of true gender equality, so a progressive community will celebrate a reversal of that.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Bad behavior is still bad behavior, regardless of who's doing it. The oppressed engaging in the same behavior as their former oppressors is not equality, it's just more oppression.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Nothing wrong with a consenting partner

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago

Yes, but not quite the point I was making

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Everyone here will pretend they would be fine with it now that you called out the hypocrisy. Or they'll argue men deserve it as some kind of "payback", in which case it's really not about equality of course.

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[–] [email protected] 91 points 1 year ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago

We never have boners because of horny jail!

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

While we're on the topic. Everybody needs to read a book about pleasuring their partners.

She comes first

Her guide to going down

I'm sure you can get more focused content for your particular situation if you looked for it, but don't assume you know what You're doing. Read and make the world a better place.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, is also a good one.

She comes first, second, third, fourth and fifth if my neck and her heart can take the strain.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But you don't always have to fuck her hard

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In fact, sometimes that's not right to do.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sometimes you want to maaake some looove

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Whatever scant humor this comic possessed, has been irretrievably destroyed by the pedants in the comments.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago

cunning linguists they are not.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was really not expecting so much, i sent it to the lady im dating she laughed so i posted it. Like most comments ive ever gotten on a meme were 6.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Aren't memes supposed to be funny? This just looks like a shitty Tumblr post.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago

Panel 3: titty eye contact, he accepts his fate lol

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago (4 children)

What the hell is wrong with people in this comment section? yeah if the genders were reversed blah blah blah be pragmatic and enjoy that pussy ffs.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is there a community for horny nsfw memes that isn’t actually porn? Asking for a friend of course.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

More importantly. Does that guy have a beard or is that just part of his hair?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

It’s part of his hair, and grows on his chin.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I would be there for my lady...

If i had one!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

What a terrible day to know how to read

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