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[–] [email protected] 124 points 11 months ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Unless you work in a factory and get stuck in a lathe while " working". The you don't even need to work

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

It starts much earlier with the open hair on the lathe.
And leisure time or not, it doesn't play so well without a scalp or fingers.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

This was me for a while. Not good.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

This is me currently and it sucks lol. Idk how to stop!

(Maybe I could start by not getting high like every night...)

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[–] [email protected] 112 points 11 months ago (1 children)

✅ I'm in this photo and I don't like it

[–] [email protected] 28 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Uh, they're obviously a sticky note. Duh...

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[–] [email protected] 89 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

Part of it, for me, is that I still want to play games as I did when I was younger. I.e. multi-hour play sessions. To sit there and just get lost in it for the whole evening.

But increasingly that's becoming unworkable. I got shit to do.

The solution, then, would be to adjust my expectations to like an hour of playtime here and there. But when I do that, I've created a schedule, and time limit, both of which really kill my personal enjoyment of game time. Playing a game while watching the clock is just not relaxing to me.

So I keep holding out for more of those evenings, those solid chunks of time when I pick up the controller and play till I'm ready for bed. But they've become so few and far between that gaming has become a weekend thing. That's a problem in itself because the weekend is generally reserved for doing things with my partner or other outings.

Quarantine was probably the most gaming I've done in a long time. I basically got to play with the same reckless abandon as I did when I was much younger, for a couple solid months. But the chances of me being able to have that same relationship with this past time ever again appears fleeting.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. The gaming nights are almost completely gone. I miss those

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Having rigid schedules with little to no wiggle room sure contribute to that, doesn't it. It's really frustrating to me. For quite a long period of time (around a year-ish), I didn't do anything else except work from home which was, for the most part, pretty chill. Naturally, even though I'm living with my partner, I had a lot of time on my hands to go to ping pong practice, play games, and other things. Now, I've recently started an apprenticeship and now I have time to do fuck-all once I get home from school. Groceries, cooking, some cleaning, and then it's basically time to sleep lol. Barely, if any gaming, no time on my hands to go to practice etc.

We've been struggling a lot recently, but I'm still holding out hope that it'll get a little better once we're accustomed to the schedule even if it'll probably only get more later on. One can hope, I guess.

It really does help to appreciate the little time we have (I have) to do recreational activities, though. It does feel really special then.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Steam Deck is great for this. Especially since you can suspend mid-game like a Nintendo Switch. No down time to select a game, wait for it to load, etc., if you don't want that.

Great for quick sessions if you only have small bursts of time.

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[–] [email protected] 68 points 11 months ago (2 children)

If only our lives weren't bound by work...

[–] [email protected] 59 points 11 months ago (1 children)

We spend our best years and energy working.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Work could and should be fulfilling. Unfortunately many modern jobs are just soul crushing and feel meaningless :-(

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Don’t worry, even fulfilling and meaningful jobs can now be made to feel trite and soul-crushing through the power of bad management!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Lol... At this point, they probably wouldn't need to be if humans weren't so awful and selfish.

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[–] [email protected] 64 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Fuck, I feel this so hard...

"I'm going to get a bunch of chores done so I can try this new game out without guilt of procrastination. Or maybe try out a hobby."

One set of chores later...

"Yawn. I'm out of energy to start something new."

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Oh man, this exactly. I've taken to cramming in the cleaning the day before but, of course, I end up overdoing it. Then new messes appear by the time I'm ready to try again.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 11 months ago (1 children)

All this working is not working

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Agree. What's even the point

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago

To purchase more in-game items, and feel like you’ve accomplished something for a few minutes before the sad comes back.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I know not everyone has this luxury but remote work has really helped give some time back in my day. Between the flexible schedule and just napping when I feel like it, I have more time in the evening to play games again. Not everyday but a few times a week at least.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Remote work really was the saving grace for me. It's just amazing how much more time one has once you eliminate the commuting times.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

It's not just the commute. You do the dishes and laundry during lunch and the 'I don't need to be here' meetings so your free time is just that. Yours

[–] [email protected] 35 points 11 months ago (2 children)

It really is the fucking dishes that do me in. It's never ending and soul crushing. No space for a dish washer.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Might not work for you but a countertop dishwasher was life changing in my old tiny apartment.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

I have a Comfee Mini Plus, no water hookup you pour in from the top.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

My dishwasher has been broken for over a week. I can see how your situation is soul crushing. The only thing keeping me going is a fix in the near future.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

I've had to come to terms with not having any time to play, really, except for maybe an hour or two here and there with my partner. It does feel awesome to at least have that going, but it sucks a lot that I don't get to play for extended periods of time if I want to. Not even taking advantage of any sales right now, even though I might want to, just because I know that I won't have any time to play.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Not that I can even afford a game rn shit.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

The problem was doing the dishes. Just let them pile up, it'll be fine.

Side note though: Work/life balance for the win. I get paid slightly less than others in my field, but I also work ~40 hours a week, and never take work home with me. It's wonderful.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Went from 35h/week to 40. It's made my life so much more complicated because everything is closed when I'm finally free. I have to take from my holidays to get my car repaired.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Damn, 5 more hours a week made that much of a difference? I'm also on a 4-day work schedule that is hybrid WFH which I forgot to mention. Having that extra weekday is clutch for things you can't do on weekends.

I'll gladly pay those union dues, because it wouldn't be like this without our collective bargaining power.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

I am at a somewhat senior (escalations tech, pretty senior without being in real management) position at my work that involves 100% WFH and a boss who trusts me on my time management, plus watches out for us when we do overtime (I'm salary so gotta get approved time off if going over etc). A bunch of prior coworkers have encouraged me to leave to get better pay, but I don't wanna give up all those benefits.

I make food at home for lunch, can play games at lunch, right after work, etc. I won't discuss if I ever play games during my work hours because how dare you accuse me of that and also where did you hide the cameras in my room?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I have some seriously conflicting emotions about the time I used to get 3-ish hours of sleep so I could play more. On one hand, the games were great fun; on the other, work was hell afterwards.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago

Perfectly sums up a generation of gamers.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago

Or just as likely you are barely able to keep your head up and you realize it is after 2am and you'll be feeling like crap the next day.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Usually I don't even turn on my PC on workdays but I recently got Victoria 3 and I just must make Bavaria great

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago

Been there, done that. 10 pm rolls around and I’m like “Gaming time!” And then I’m sleepy within like 30 minutes 🤣

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (9 children)

When does this happen? I am 27 and I am scared I will end up like this, lol.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

I'm 28 and yeah, it's happened.

A wife, a new baby, a job that takes up too much of my time, then always washing dishes... So. Many. Dishes.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago

Wash dishes while you cook food. It literally will save you years of your life.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I mean, just don't get a job with long hours and don't have kids and you're probably all good.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

Not having kids saves a lot of time. Also, not having a dog, or having a very low maintenance dog that doesn't need a lot of walking.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Age and you need sleep more than gaming

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

I think it depends on how demanding your days are, how much you exercise, and if you're eating well.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

That's why I wake up at 5am to play and then go to work

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