this post was submitted on 18 Dec 2023
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Come on'n get your jamaharon on! There are no real rules—just don't break the weather control network.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I completely disagree with the sentiment here. My 40s have been great because they marked the point in my life when I finally lost my last fuck to give.

The freedom that provides is worth not being able to drink the way I used to in my 30s. Enjoy that achievement.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

I've been 40 for a 1/4 of one trip around the sun and it's not so bad. Just do a little high kick, punch the air and yell "I'm 40!!!" It helps!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

If it helps, everyone else around our age is also creeping up on 40.

I don't think we spontaneously turn into our parents or adopt the thinking of their generation.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Yeah. It feels like an occasion to mark, not celebrate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

30's start to notice you can't do stuff you used to be able to do along with aches and pains but they are still once in awhile. 40's they are no longer once in awhile. 50's you are sorta used to them and its just another part of life is pain.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

This honestly went the other way around for me. There was a lot of stuff I couldn't manage as a teenager and in my 20s, and a lot of pain I had that I don't have anymore. Though I definitely have to do more negotiating with my body about food.

But I started taking estrogen in my early 30s, which seemed to make a big difference.