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[–] [email protected] 21 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Imo this is a super good way to encourage getting things done and also using your to-do list!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

1000% you did a bonus mission, gotta get that checkbox

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

If it's not in my completed tasks history, it doesn't count. I want it to count!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This also documents that the task was done. Helpful if its on another todo list which is currently not at hand. Also helps preventing adding it as new todo since it was already done.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

This is actually a really good point. Sometimes I forget I did something...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I most definitely used to have a "to-done" list, completely separate from any to-do list. I think it helped me to get a better sense of how long things actually took and gave me an opportunity to focus on my accomplishments, rather than just my failures.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

I think it helped me to get a better sense of how long things actually took

I think I need to pay attention to this to improve the dread I feel before starting certain tasks. If I know I only have to withstand it for 5 minutes, I'd be more likely to do it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Obviously. Then when I feel like I haven't got anything done I can go all courtroom drama on my brain and dramatically present the evidence.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

start working on semestral project
~~walk dog~~
~~watch a 54-minute video essay~~
~~make a meme for Lemmy~~

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

My kind of to-do list

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Another benefit to this is if your task list is set up in such a way that you can tell when the task was completed. I use a bullet journal with a new list for each week. If I want to know when I took my car to the mechanic or the last time my house was vacuumed, it's easy for me to flip back and look.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I tried picking up bullet journals, but it never stuck. I do love the concept though. I usually throw my to-do lists away once done, but I can see the value in referencing back.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Yepper, this is me!!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Am I the only one who read her name wrong first time? Must be dyslexia.