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The ability to access a dopamine drip feed at any moment instantly kills any motivation to seek long-term pursuits, especially when thereβs a learning curve involved.
I canβt even start new games these days because the thought of spending time being bad at something seems so awful compared to just watching someone else.
Thereβs a good smbc about this but I canβt find it.
Social media all the way.
Spotify. I remember trawling through Sony music stores and Limewire trying to find new music, and when I did, that album would be on repeat for a week.
Now it's so easy to just find whatever, I've lost all passion for it.
I have to respectfully disagree.
Spotify's radio and suggestion algorithm are top fucking notch. In fact.... I listen to so much more fascinating, obscure, weird shit now because i can easily take any song i like, and make a radio station out of it and proceed to work all day while liking / saving / artist following anything that pulls my mind away from work and into the jam.
I have found so much more music passively through Spotify than i ever could actively through p2p, or could ever afford through a brick and mortar music shop. Not to mention never again having to experience the crushing disappointment of buying a twenty dollar album of fifteen tracks of which maybe two were good.
I'm living in the golden age of indie music. And no one will ever be able to convince me that it was better before.
I wish Spotify radios worked that well for me. They always seem to just recommend the same songs I've been listening to lately.
I definitely had that for a while. One thing that can help is going into your settings/preferences and clearing your Spotify cache. I believe the recommendations are at least partially based on data stored there, so clearing it can start a fresher record.
I definitely had that phase, I have a ton of playlists on Spotify with music from almost every genre (except country and western obviously).
Maybe I lost my passion for a different reason, Idk
That.... Kinda makes me sad. I hope you get that passion back.
I think I just did. I went out to see Eagles of Deathmetal and a local punk band opened for them. They were fucking excellent.
https://growndownz.bandcamp.com/album/dochdwy-road
I'm buying tickets to see them again in November!
I agree π―. There's just too much to take in today. Year ago, when we used to talk about how we don't have so many resources in our access and we need more, what we really meant was that yes I need more things but not more stuff, i need more of this thing where I'm enjoying an album for weeks i need more of it. I want to go get a new album myself. I want to be able to access everything... But not that i want to feel FOMO when i see people going from one thing to another. I didn't want to see this becoming a cool thing to just know too many things, buy too many things, have access to too many things. When did that become a competition and when did i become a boomer if i didn't participate in that race of destroying my brain and my psychology which affects my life eventually.
When you feel overwhelmed and overstimulated, and donβt know what to do. Do nothing. Take a walk and just enjoy being you.
Realizing things aren't getting better, global warming is going to get significantly worse, and that we're probably far too late to dismantle capitalism. All my hope lies on the baby boomers finally dying out, they've ruined so much of our lives and refuse to let their positions of power go.
Hey, we did stop acid rain and the hole in the ozone. So there were some wins.
Curious to where you find actual good news cuz I never heard of this! I need some hope man, even if it's pretty heavy coping
Capitalism and neo-colonism has really been there for some decades and has significantly damaged the societal structure controlled by selfish and inhuman being and portraying itself as a liberal and democratic tool. The horrors it has brought are now irreversible even if the social psychology and consciousness understands it because those people can never think of letting anyone reverse that.
It reminds me of a Simpsons episode where they are taking riches and celebs to the other planet while poor and unpopular are stranded on the earth getting blasted and in nuclear waste in the atmosphere.
When they have basically snatched every opportunity and power from you of redefining and rethinking of a more flexible and humane society, by giving u hope that they'll do it themselves and will fix everything. And now there's no way out when they've betrayed us and the humanity for their personal and short pleasure.
The gain and then subsequent slashing of human rights based on fascist beliefs and lack of representation (and possibly over representation by fringe groups that capture the news cycle). Across the world, populism and fascism is gaining in popularity - again. It felt like we'd gotten past this point for a minute.
I believe it's not that fascism as it objectively is has increased since the last decade, but it sure has been put on a global headline with the media and globalisation. And i think there hasn't been real increament in the fascistic element but decline... But the politics has basically used it for their agenda manking and then making it mainstream more than it should've been.
Minor one is that it's just really hard to get some damn rest. We're so caught up in everything that I think very many of us have never actually done nothing in a very long time outside of sleep
Didn't think of this. Thank you for this perspective too. π
I dunno what the research says on this, but I bet everyone being like 20% plastic by weight from all the microplastics in the environment hasn't helped π
Most people mentioned social media here, but I think it's the software that adjusts and auto-personalizes the content according to the live user's interactions. Good software was never meant to have that. Good software is meant to have good UX and UI, but not auto-tailoring to user's needs.
I follow the principles of 'if I need to change the design, I do it myself'. The best practice would be the special options where I could customize my software, like 'Customize Firefox'. Some IDEs also have a field to play around. No A/B testing to individual groups, no personalized feeds, ability to disable or adjust the settings.
*gestures wildly at everything*
For those who don't want to click: Capitalist realism is countered by ~~nihilism~~ Edit: absurdism.
Not Nihilism, but Absurdism. Thanks for taking the time though.
Thank you, you're right. I just heard the opening line, "It begins with nihilism", and my memory isn't winning any awards.
Camus really did break the code for later philosophers and overthinkers...
Tho it didn't need to go for existentialism or absurdism here.
No I'm not experiencing nothing. Omg. I was just studying this matter better. I'm all good with what i am and am doing great. Thanks for the comment tho. I'm sure it'll help people. π