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I've come to grips that I may be a furry or at least semi furry. Dunno where to go from here tho. Is there a test I can take? I'm kinda confused ngl fuck it I embrace it IM A FURRY

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

There is a test. It's real easy.

Question 1: Do you wanna be a furry?

(That's it)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't contribute to the fandom and probably won't, I have no fursona (probably will want a character, like in RPG), no fursuit, but yes. I want to be a furry, not 100% a furry, but still.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's no "scale" of how legit someone is at being a furry. If nothing else the furry community is so massive that no one could agree on a definition of a 100% furry even if they wanted to. Interacting with the community is also not required. Just be whatever you want to be and pick up the label if you like it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm scared that I may just want to be a furry to belong to a community and not because I feel that way. It's idk

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

For me, it's like a hobby. Not anything deep, just a hobby and I like it that way. I enjoy furry art, I follow some furries (Azrafox, WybeeWolf, Anonymous Furry Artist, Pocari Roo) and that's all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Even if that turns out to be the case, there's nothing wrong with that. It's a pretty good community to be a part of.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Well idk. Maybe. I guess I want to or I wouldn't have post here

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

There is no gatekeeping here. You don't need to pass a bar, there's no list of movies you need to watch or a fursona you need to have. It's just a lot of people who enjoy funny animal characters.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Being a furry is just matter of self identifying as one and appreciation of anthro animals. What defines an anthro is very broad and has a very low bar to clear

So there's nothing else to it really, do you like anthros or not? And do you like furries (the community) and wish to be associated with them?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I like them and I wish to be part of the community

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

if you wanna see more cute furry art and wholesome content you should join the furries :3

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Thank you all <3

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In my experience it's not always something you just "are", like being gay. Personally I do feel like it's something I've always been, but I know many people that don't feel that way.

Generally, if you identify as a furry then you're a furry. If you want to stop identifying as a furry then you can stop identifying as a furry. If you feel like it's deeper than that then you can come to terms with whatever that means for you.

In terms of a test, just expose yourself to some furry-related media and see if you like it. From the tone of your post I'm going to guess you might have a negative bias towards furries, so it might be a little harder to get past that initial kneejerk feeling to figure out what your own real feelings are.

Above all, if you haven't interacted with the furry community before you should know that literally anything you want to identify as will be welcomed here. Furries are the most radically-accepting group I've ever seen. Be yourself and we'll celebrate it with you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where did you get the expression that I'm negative about the furry community? I really like the community. Like every interaction I had with a furry was a good one and as far as I know most of them are amazing people. I'm scared that I may identify with a community because I want to be long and not because I am that

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"I've come to grips" read like there is reluctance or that you didn't actually want to be one. I mistook it as a negative bias but yes your situation makes sense in that context. There is a surprisingly common phenomenon where people who are first exposed to furries through the internet hate machines end up in the pipeline to eventually becoming a furry, and they end up with similar-looking posts to yours.

You don't need to be a "true furry" to hang out in the community - just hang out where the furries are. Being a "furry" is an extremely light label - there are "furries" I know that are "less furry" than some people who don't even know what furries are. If all you need is a community to hang out with, the furry community is not going to check membership cards and deny you entry. People come and go in the fandom all the time, and people even stop identifying as furries later on. There is no checklist of things you need to be to be a furry. You don't need a fursona, you don't need to be into fursuiting, you don't need to have furry friends, you don't need to be a therian, you don't need to profess your furriness IRL, and you don't need to have some "deep-rooted furriness" to be "valid". If you put the label on, congrats you're a furry. You'll see people without dumb animal avatars or silly names in the furry community, and they're no different than you.

As before, the furry community is very accepting, and even if you outright present yourself as a non-furry you will still get the same level of support from the community - if you still can't shake the feeling that you're an "impostor" of some kind, just exist in the communities without putting the label on. I guarantee that over time you'll figure out what this means for you if you expose yourself to the culture over time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

The I've comes to grip comment does soand hostile after reading it again. I'm sorry it never was intended that way but English is hard as 2nd language xD