ABlackWaltz

Cyndaquil (plus Quilava and Typhlosion) will always have a special place in my heart. I started with gen 1, but something about silver really grabbed me so Cyndaquil was really the first Pokemon I had an attachment to.

While Sword/Shield had a lot of flaws, they gave me Toxtricity, who rocks. Literally! Using Boomburst while he "strums" the "strings" on his chest and annihilates my enemies... He's a new favorite of mine. Also I like to sing System of a Down's "Toxicity" when I use him in battle which really aggravates anyone who happens to be around when I play

It could be how you're searching - I always pull the full link (https://lemmy.robotra.sh/c/springfieldil) and put that in the search. It looks like you should be able to do the same, as I was able to reach the community this way.

I would try to remember that we are in fact trying to form a safe space here which does include a number of cis men. I don't want to invalidate your experiences at all, because some people are shitty people and as humans we tend to notice patterns, but your initial comment was rather callous toward people who haven't done anything wrong.

That said, I appreciate this elaboration and clarification of your intent. When it's always the same kind of people knocking you down, it can be hard not to make an immediate judgment of someone who has similar qualities and I can understand where you're coming from even if I don't agree. If every cat I ever met scratched me, the friendliest cat in the world is going to be viewed with suspicion. Just please try to remember that generalizations like that aren't really nice to those they are directed at.

That's amazing, she's going to be glorious

This post from a few days ago has a few suggestions you could check out: https://beehaw.org/post/573948

The only instances affected are lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works. The defederation from them means we can't access them and they can't access us. Other instances are still able to be accessed.

Not quite - this means Beehaw can no longer access lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works, and they can no longer access beehaw. It goes both ways.

Let's contain reddit/spez memes within the megathread please. This isn't inviting discussion that wouldn't be better had there. Thanks!

https://beehaw.org/post/576904

I'm pretty sure most of us are still learning the platform, and the defederation is certainly adding to the list of things to figure out as a user. I'd rather people ask than just silently wonder. :)

While it's not the easiest to sort through, the Instances list at the bottom of the page shows every instance we're federated with and those that are blocked. This will always show what you do and don't have access to through your Beehaw account (or through your account on another instance should you sign up elsewhere). Direct link if it's easier: https://beehaw.org/instances

Yes, new instances usually automatically federate with everything. From what I've heard, there are "default" blocklists being maintained as far as what you might choose to block by default (so you don't have to go through the growing pains yourself if you don't want) or they could decide to whitelist instances which would then affect federation. And, as seen here, they can also defederate from any instance at any time if they feel the need.

If you're running your own instance, of course, you're the one calling the shots so you make those decisions and can federate with everything if that's what you want.

This is exactly correct. Defederation means that information is no longer flowing between the two instances, so new posts and comments on either instance will not be visible to the other.