DroneRights

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Hey, they're talking about me!

Yes, a blahaj user repeatedly misgendered me after claiming to be apolitical

 
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, this whole situation is really stressing out my system's 7/9 introject. It feels very misgendered

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you're correct to say that the transfem reading of Seven of Nine resonates with the desire not to be accused of having been forced into transitioning, then how does the fact that 7/9 was forced into transitioning make any sense? No, 7/9 is the story of forced transition, forced womanhood. The abuses suffered by intersex infants and nonbinary adults. 7/9's story is the clericofascist groomer narrative if 7/9 is transfem. But if 7/9 is nonbinary, then its story is the actual oppression of sex and gender nonbinary people.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But all of that is moot because 7/9 didn't choose to become a woman. Parts of its body were rotting and sloughing off as they were rejected, and Janeway said "Tough nuts, you're a woman now". That is the body horror experienced by transmascs. 7/9 never expressed consent, only acceptance that it was the only possible option for survival. Janeway never asked permission, and with 7/9 being forced to become human, everybody implictly accepted that meant 7/9 had to become a woman because humans aren't nonbinary. That entire angle of the plot dehumanises nonbinary people, not to mention that 7/9 is pressured to pursue men as it becomes a woman because all must bow to the heteropatriarchy.

If trans women see themselves in a being that was forced against its will to become a woman then that is also horrible, and the difference between myself and them is that they have options. Even within Star Trek, trans women have Jadzia Dax and Soren. They have people of their gender with a similar experience and journey. And for the journey of being forced into womanhood under threat of violence we have Seven of Nine. And that is not a transfem experience, that is a transmasc/nonbinary/intersex experience such as I had.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I want to actually look at this idea that it's offensive to trans people to hold up a nonconsensual example of transition up as an ideal, and to look at it within a safe space for trans people. First, let's note that every cisgender-identifying person I know was coerced into identifying that way. Most of them turned out to agree with the identity forced upon them. So, that is the baseline we are dealing with when it comes to gender rights. Everyone gets coerced into some ideal. If Starfleet didn't force gender onto children, they would have a fair criticism of the borg with regard to gender. But we saw Miles and Keiko O'Brien raise their daughter Molly, and Molly was pressured to be a daughter from the moment of her birth. In the place of the narrative, the Borg are a vilain. They explore the question, "what if the federation didn't care about consent". We've got to have villains like that in fiction, they're great. So, given the necessity of a villain, do we want yet another binary gender villain, or something more interesting and diverse? And yeah, the villain doesn't treat gender with respect. That's okay, they're a villain. Expecting every trans person in fiction to be raised cisgender and to break out of their programming on their own is... weird. You're cutting off a lot of stories there just to make trans people suffer and protect this cisnormative ideal of how being trans should work. This is science fiction, there should be alien races who are alien. There should be unfamiliar scenarios. And sometimes unfamiliar science fiction scenarios about villains are the only representation swarmgender not-people like me can get. And it is better than nothing.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The Borg referred to themselves as "we", and use the third person pronouns they/them. The Borg refer to Seven of Nine, Tertiary Adjuct of Unimatrix Zero One as "this drone", and use the third person pronouns it/its. Seven of Nine also did not particularly enjoy being referred to as "Seven". It was a concession made for the sake of efficiency and the comfort of the humans, but it voiced its dissatisfaction with the choice when it consented. As a nonbinary person, I have also consented to identifiers I didn't like for the sake of others' comfort. I recognise the experience and have direct empathy. Given that we are communicating in a text format, it requires negligible effort to refer to it as 7/9 and preserve the precision with which it wished to be referred.

Now as to 7/9's stated preference and opinion of Janeway:

JANEWAY: I've met Borg who were freed from the Collective. It wasn't easy for them to accept their individuality, but in time they did. You're no different. Granted, you were assimilated at a very young age, and your transition may be more difficult, but it will happen.
SEVEN: If it does happen, we will become fully human?
JANEWAY: Yes, I hope so.
SEVEN: We will be autonomous. Independent.
JANEWAY: That's what individuality is all about.
SEVEN: If at that time we choose to return to the Collective, will you permit it?
JANEWAY: I don't think you'll want to do that.
SEVEN: You would deny us the choice as you deny us now. You have imprisoned us in the name of humanity, yet you will not grant us your most cherished human right. To choose our own fate. You are hypocritical, manipulative. We do not want to be what you are. Return us to the Collective!
JANEWAY: You lost the capacity to make a rational choice the moment you were assimilated. They took that from you, and until I'm convinced you've gotten it back, I'm making the choice for you. You're staying here.
SEVEN: Then you are no different than the Borg.

It allowed itself to undergo conversion therapy to become a woman because it saw no other choice. It was locked in a prison until it agreed. That is not consent, that is coersion. It is survival.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Like, performing magic through sheer martial prowess rather than study and arcane research feels like something that DnD doesn't have much support for.

It had plenty of support for that in 4e. These days only monks get to be magically martial

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Back in 4e, fighters were explicitly supernatural

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think that's going to happen in our lifetime

 
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Actually, hedonism was invented by a Greek philosopher who was rare among his contemporaries for allowing women and slaves to study at his school as equals. He believed a life of simple pleasures in moderation was the key to happiness. He spent all day gardening and discussing philosophy, and then had a glass of wine and (CW: carnism) cheese before bed. He was also an empiricist who believed the world was made of atoms, and he taught that fear of death was the cause of a great deal of human suffering. He believed people should act with kindness in order to ease their own conscience, instead of doing it because they're scared of divine punishment.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epicurus

Hedonism is antifascist.

 

“Star Trek was an attempt to say that humanity will reach maturity and wisdom on the day that it begins not just to tolerate, but take a special delight in differences in ideas and differences in life forms. […] If we cannot learn to actually enjoy those small differences, to take a positive delight in those small differences between our own kind, here on this planet, then we do not deserve to go out into space and meet the diversity that is almost certainly out there.” ― Gene Roddenberry

 

My post got banned for being "wrecker behaviour". I don't know the community here, I joined because people said Hexbear is trans friendly, can someone explain the terminology? Google has other people using the word but nobody explaining it

 

When it comes to subreddits, lemmy communities, and lemmy instances, the people enforcing the rules are the same people making the rules. To borrow from legal terminology, the legislative, executive, and judicial branches are the same. Mods and admins are judge, jury, and executioner. This gives them a lot of power and allows biases in the way they enforce the rules to go ignored.

When it comes to the reddit admins, however, and sitewide bans and content removal, the people enforcing the rules are employees. They report to a boss, and have to follow guidelines already established. The content policy has already been written, and changing it is a big deal. If a ban is unjust, it can be appealed using the rules. When biases in the ways the rules are enforced happen, it's easier to undo them. And I'm not saying it's easy, but on Lemmy, it's impossible. You can't even log into your account if you're banned, how are you supposed to appeal?

Reddit as a business has a great deal more power than any fediverse instance's mod teams. But ironically, the low ranking admins have less power to make bad decisions. And that's why I've noticed a consistent pattern that Reddit is better at moderating cases that are legally clear-cut, but emotionally controversial. On Lemmy, admins follow their feelings. On Reddit, people may have a lot of feelings, but the proletariat administration intern has had feelings beaten out of them, and they more often end up following the rules.

The way Reddit operates is soulless and horrible and capitalist, but... soul is where hatred comes from. You're less likely to find that in the workings of an unfeeling machine.

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