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And I don't mean things you previously had no strong opinion about.

What is a belief you used to hold that you no longer do, and what/who made you change your mind about it?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like your growth is your realization that people aren't intending to harm you. That, yes, they are just people bopping along trying to survive. That their indifference to you isn't malice. A great life lesson.

However, that doesn't mean they aren't also idiots.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Not so much that people aren't intending to harm me but just that they are self-involved and don't intentionally mean harm most of the time. Yes they're still idiots, but to them I am also. We all are, really.