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Makes sense. If you're willing to take advantage of others, you can get advantages.
And these days, retaliation against adult bullies is not so straight forward.
Not to mention psychopathic tendencies are required to excel as an exec
Adult bullies are often idolized in our culture. They're certainly rewarded in corporate workplaces where abusing others and not caring is seen as a sign of purposefulness and strength.
Exactly... and on the flip side, standing up for workplace injustice is a sign of insubordination and is punished. Even objectively discussing power dynamics gets a negative/uncomfortable reaction in my experience.
What I'm gathering from this is I should become some sort of crazed vigilante, who goes and punches bullies in the face at playgrounds
And I completely disagree about handling adult bullies. It's quite straightforward. Just illegal.
Apparently punching children and assaulting adults with tire irons is "wrong" and "against the law"
Bullying bullies doesn't teach them that bullying isn't a path to power. It just teaches them that you're higher up in the chain than they are, for now.
Ohhh, punch them harder, got it.
I can understand putting a subjective word like "wrong" in air quotes, since that's a matter of judgement, not objectivity. But whether something is legal or illegal is usually pretty straightforward, and not subject to interpretation outside of a courtroom, and specifically by a judge or jury.
Average joe is not permitted to interpret the law however he thinks it ought to be interpreted, that would just be chaos.
My straight forward retaliation is do damage to them.