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Please be a little specific in your plan, not just "travel". Where do you want to travel ?

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[–] [email protected] 62 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (7 children)

Nothing! I'm super-serious, and I plan on doing exactly that for the following 6 months (quit my job, taking a break to address burnout and reorient): nothing.

By that, I mean I'll allow myself to get as much sleep as I humanly can, try to feed myself healthier food (and more regularly), develop my hobbies (mini painting, playing the bass, sketching, writing), re-establish a semblance of a social life by exploring the city and its options, spending more time with friends... Pretty much just living life. No goals, no quotas, no deadlines, no performance metrics, no side-hustle, no Workβ„’.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I plan on doing exactly that for the following 6 months (quit my job, taking a break to address burnout and reorient): nothing.

I wouldn't call adressing a burnout a Sabbatical but a sick leave, a Sabbatical is choosing to take time off work for a project, not needing to take time off work for your mental health

Sorry that you're there (And use the health issue as an explanation for the hole in your CV if they ask)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Agreed, expressed it incorrectly, the burnout is nowhere near the main reason for my taking time off. I needed to take a break from Adult Stuff. I mean, last time I did anything even remotely resembling a vacation/holiday was in 2014, now I'm taking my time.

Also, thank you so much for your kind words! Honestly, burnouts are just part of the routine at this point, I'll be back on my feet in two-three months tops!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

...get as much sleep as I humanly can, try to feed myself healthier food (and more regularly), develop my hobbies (mini painting, playing the bass, sketching, writing), re-establish a semblance of a social life by exploring the city and its options, spending more time with friends... Pretty much just living life.

That's not nothing!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Thoroughly agreed, that's what I call everything not viewed as immediately societally productive. More of a sarcastic reversal of the main complaint I've received throughout my life while just living it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I did the same, except 'nothing' was 'play with my kid' and several years later it still registers as a very happy time, even though I should have been worrying about work, or lack thereof.

(I was going to the trampoline park 2-3 times a week with a toddler, great times.)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

This is what life should be like in a sane world. Work should never take up as much of our cognitive bandwidth as it does now.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

I did that when i got laid off in January. Can recommend. Mental reset helps. Having no job helps with refocusing on whats really important, like own mental wellbeing, family and friends. Good times, tho i got pretty stressed out because searching for new job took a while, despite everyone else in IT got one in 15mins it seemed at the moment

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This is essentially what I did when I was laid off August last year. And it did take about that long to really be free of all the stress I'd racked up over the years in retail and other public customer-facing roles.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

It really does take a while... Had a 9-month breakdown during the Pandemic, that one was exclusively for mental health care. I literally locked myself in my apartment and did nothing but eat, sleep, play vidya, get high, and have weekly therapy sessions for the entire duration.

It took 8 months to stop being anxious about not being stressed out. Used to wake up every morning with that sharp fear that I'd missed my daily meetings, then it would slowly turn into an "oh, shit, I'm not being Productive" jumble of self-loathing and panic.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

That sounds beautiful.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Hey, I actually did this! It was the best time of my life.

My aim was to migrate to south america, specialize in my career and get in/stay in shape.

I spent my days going to the gym, learning spanish, doing impromptu streams on twitch (I found a little community in my preperations to quit my job) , and I did travel to the country I wanted to migrate to and to NY to see a band that rarely plays live, visit my family in a different country and to visit my bud that lived in scandinavia.

I spent a month with my family preparing a portfolio.

I saved money during my career, about $16k over several years,and figured, if time is money, money is time.

I'm happy to answer any questions.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What country was it? Are you still there?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago

Uruguay, still there.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Did you have a job there or a clue ? Or you went to search for it ?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

No job, no clue. At the start the perspective of some others and me were that it felt like I just fell out of the sky and tried to integrate into society.

I figured I'd either do immersion learning for spanish, or succeed and set up my life here.

The job came fairly easily, one of the companies from my first wave of applications accepted me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

What kind of job is it?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I would absolutely have a blast being a full time stay-at-home Dad. We would hit every Park, library, zoo, and aquarium within a days drive.

Then during the summer, I'd pass their kids to their grandparents house so my wife and I could find a place to SCUBA for 2 weeks straight.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I'd probably start designing and building a rolling ball clock/ sculpture, then hit some sort of obstacle and switch to making a self recirculating eddy current tube, get frustrated and try to design and build an electronically commutated counter rotating propeller driver, get frustrated and try to build a garage sized 3d printer, get frustrated and try to build a delayed action door closer get frustrated and try to build a co-planar compound cycloidal reducer, get frustrated and then forget my wife's anniversary until 4pm the day before.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Procrastinate for eleven months, panic at the last minute, ask for a do over, fail, then try to learn Rust in 3 days and program a roguelike.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

are you me from other timeline?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

Go back to Japan.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (4 children)

My question to anyone able to answer this: how can you afford to take a sabbatical period??? I can’t even afford to take a weeks vacation. It would wreck me financially not receiving pay for a whole week. Let alone a year??? What’s going on in this thread?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)

step 1 : have a career

step 2 : don't spend that much money, building up savings

step 3 : time is money, therefore, money is time.

step 4 : be very, very frugal during your time with no work. I ate a lot of protein powder, eggs and pasta

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

There are some platforms like World Packers where you receive free food and a bed for helping out in places. But I guess that still doesn't cover travel, insurance, debt, and any other long term payments you might have to make

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

I’ve been saving 30-40% of my salary each month for years, it helps not going outside because you don’t like people and watching movies and playing video games. And eating ramen

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Read mrmoneymustache.com.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Sleep, play with my cats, hang out with my wife, organize all my shit, prune my emails and pictures, finish my homelab and the other tech projects I have going on, go to Disney a bunch.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

That but instead of Disney, I would take time to learn a new skill and horn the one I have learned before.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago
  • Run a weekly in-person D&D campaign at my house, make dinner for the players.
  • Play around with Arduino and ESP32 - home automation, robots and whatever.
  • Do a lot of 3d design and printing - make little toys to give away with Halloween candy.
  • Build model castles.
  • Listen to classic old-time radio shows.
  • Help with stage productions at a local theater.
  • Write some Discord bots and npm modules.
  • Participate in NaNoWriMo
[–] Aussiemandeus 5 points 4 days ago

I would spend my year trying to turn my side business into my actual business then I couldn't quite my job and work for myself doing what I do now but for more money

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Spend time with my kids and play video games while they’re at school

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'd hike the Appalachian Trail.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Wow that must be so cool to do ! Both projects are really nice !

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

I did have a one year sabbatical. I hiked and volunteered on farms mostly. I worked at a animal refuge farm in India and a goat farm in Montana. I hiked in the Himalayas, Andes, Rockies, and Tetons. I hiked in Canyon, Texas and at Glacier too. I headed south for winter and explored the civic side of the civil war and the civil rights movement, hoping to learn something that would help me understand what was happening in our country. I toured Little Rock High, Fort Sumter, White Haven and Jackson's Barracks. I read Lincoln's speeches. I learned to cross country ski and visited my mom a lot. I went to Virginia with my family and took a detour to DC with my sister while we were there.

I'm back to working now. I moved to live near the mountains so I can hike and I volunteer on an animal refuge farm every week. My mom passed not too long after. I am forever grateful for that experience.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Buy a minivan, remove back seats. Add a bed and a battery bank, a small travel fridge and a hob for cooking then start camping at the nearest national parks. Refine my load out and start venturing farther and farther out.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

I just quit yesterday with nothing else lined up. Gonna take a WHOLE MONTH for healing (isn't it ridiculous how ridiculous that feels?) and then figure out my next move. I wanna build an app or something.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Two chicks at the same time, man...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)
  • Do a food tour of Vietnam
  • Experience more of South East Asia
  • Volunteer my time at the City Mission
  • Get more sleep
  • Workout more
  • Spend more time with the girlfriend
  • Spend more time with Family
  • Work on some personal Web Projects

Not in any particular order.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

Visit Japan, South Korea, and certain EU countries I’ve never been to yet. Also probably spend 2 weeks back in my home country to visit immediate family and some friends.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Sleep.

Then all the projects!!!!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Develop my current podcast further, as well as work on at least 1 or 2 other podcast ideas I have. So many great ideas, so little time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Ooh looks interesting, subbed!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Our dream (my SO and me) is to ride our motorcycles to Japan (from Central Europe). At this time the northern route is politically difficult. The southern route has always been difficult but would be the better option at this time, I think. We even discussed ideas of plans. She could take a half year off, for me it would be more difficult. But the funds would be the biggest issue. So plan B is to rent motorcycles for a week or two, next time we're in Japan.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Probably a bikini inspector at my favourite beach... Seriously though the Bibbulmun Track.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Technically not a sabbatical, but I saved up a bunch of money, quit my job, and have been studying abroad in Japan.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

I'm assuming money is not an option?

Learn shit. Painting class, cooking class, poetry, random community college shit. Hire a language tutor if I could. And I'd hire a personal trainer and chef, since I'd have time to try and work on myself. Maybe a coding boot camp if I can keep up, so I can come back with a whole new career. I think I'd make that my goal. Dabble in as many things as I can to see what I like. And I also just like learning random shit.

When I have three months left, I'll take a trip to visit all the places I've been interested in moving to. I'd hope to come back healthier and smarter, in some way.

I would also leave myself two weeks to just be before I had to go back to real life.

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