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  • Put clothes in washer.
  • 36 hours later, realize never put clothes in dryer! Aww crap... gonna need to wash again.
  • Investigate. Discover never started washer, clothes never got wet.
  • Victory...?
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[–] [email protected] 38 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Task failed successfully? lol

An error popup that says 'success'

[–] [email protected] 35 points 9 months ago

Oh my God. You've just proven that two wrongs DO make a right!

[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Oh shit my laundry! Thanks!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

This is me right now

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Reminders + timers are key. I have a recurring reminder that says “Laundry? Set timer!” That I check off either if there’s no laundry or once the laundry is on the drying rack. It is set to remind me every 3 days once checked off.

It will stare at me every time I check my phone until it’s done. Works pretty well.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago

Gamechanger for me was automation with home assistant. I attached sensors everywhere and wrote scripts that nag me with notifications on my phone. For example I have a smart wall plug where the washer is attached to. If the power draw first rises over a threshold it means, that I started the washer. If it goes below a theeshold that means it's finished and it sends a notification. To make sure I don't ignore it, I attached a door/window sensor to the washer's door. So it reminds me every 5 minutes until I open that fucking door.

And I tried to identify as many situations like these as possible so it takes care of reminding me. It's not perfect and many things are not feasible to automate. But it helps me a lot!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

This. As someone with severe combined type ADHD, it is vitally important to develop coping strategies. Timers, alarms, calendar entries, etc. Anything and everything that works. I also recommend passing your decision making process through a mental prioritization framework so you target the lowest hanging fruit (choose biggest impact tasks that require the least amount of effort to complete).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I really have to do that. I set my alarm when i start my washer. Even tho my room is next to it and i hear the beeping.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

Go start your laundry! Put a timer on your phone. And have a good chuckle.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Don't worry, it all comes out in the wash

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Just like a Reaver harpoon blade.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Like a leaf on the wind.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago (3 children)

I have a combination washer/dryer unit. It doesn't do a great job at drying, but it does remove enough of the moisture that it takes a couple days to get musty. It's nice that I can just stick a load in before bed, and besides wrinkles, there's no problem with me not getting to it for a day.

The combo units have tiny drums and take longer than separate units. They wouldn't be suitable for a family with kids, but for just two people It's been pretty convenient.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'd be too paranoid to use that... Gotta inspect things before they go in the dryer to make sure it's all good.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

You can do a wash cycle, check it and then do a dry cycle if you're paranoid about it. Personally I just chuck stuff in mine on a combined wash and dry and it comes out clean and perfectly dry. The first unit I bought was shit and barely ever dried anything properly but I sent it back and got a Samsung instead and it's been flawless.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I always wondered if a 2 in 1 washer/dryer was a thing but never bothered to look it up I guess, so thanks for that fact. Now I am off to restart the washer because the load I ran 2 days ago and forgot to put in dryer is now smelling a bit off

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Preach.

This combination has been my purchase of the year 2023. Such a blessing, especially in a small apartment without a balcony.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (3 children)

I have an old washer and dryer that work. I don't want to replace them with smart devices. I DO want to get a text whenever they're done with their cycles. Any ideas how to make that happen?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

ADHD person here.
I installed Home Assistant on a small RPi and used a Wifi plug.

I then I used one of the many blueprints that basically says "If power is over 5amp, and then stop for 5 minutes and under 5amps, then send a message to your phone".

Not exactly easy, but its really fun.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I do have HA, but never thought of that. Thanks! I'm going to see if anyone sells that sort of sensor prebuilt.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

https://youtu.be/q6aCfDDEkwE?si=XXlizUALgTh8Bi_U

There are now blueprints that make it extra easy but this guy sets it up manually and even installed it on your smart speakers.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

https://piped.video/q6aCfDDEkwE?si=XXlizUALgTh8Bi_U

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

I'm open-source; check me out at GitHub.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I have the skill set, but not the free time or interest. I LITERALLY might do this though (I'm this kind of weird hacker)...

  • Get an old Android phone (I have like 5, I don't know how many would charge, but probably 2 would). Duct tape it to your washer.
  • Write an app that queries the accelerometer and detects jiggling.
  • Wait 2 minutes. If there's more jiggling, start the 2 minutes over.
  • When there's no jiggling for 2 minutes, send a push notification.
[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)
  1. Figure out how long it runs
  2. Set a timer for that long
[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I'm not usually the one setting it unfortunately.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Take the W, brah

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

~~Most clothes could handle not being dried immediately. Some types might get "crunchy" (I dunno what it is, hard water?) but still be okay.~~

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Depending on your location and season, crunch isn’t the problem. It’s mildew.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Oh, thank you very much for the safety correction - that could be bad! :-D

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Yes I crossed off my comment, to avoid spreading misinformation.