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As a kid in the 80's I thought the premise of dirty dancing was a joke. 40 years later.........

Yeah good, being fired from anything above an entry level job gets you blacklisted from similar level positions. It's the world telling you, you belong at a lower level position.

It was a coincidence that we were both naked and penetration occurred because of the fall, and continued for some time after.

probably stopped paying for the google account.

two more weeks.

check out Drops Preonic. because it is ortho, all the keys are much closer together. I have one at home and at work.

This is the way. I like my first three dice rolls were fails, 2 critical fails. I could have hit load game, but figured fuck it. Let's see what happens, it's not like I won't be playing this more than once or anything. Enjoy the ride.

You mean their Emotiional Support Truck.

Unrelated agreement, the world would be better off if we had skipped cars.

You and being lured by the fantasy. The "good memories" of the time you had, and the not realistic ideas of what could be, the fantasy. Just like anybody and porn, the idea of banging or being with that person seems fucking awesome and appealing. Remind yourself of reality, ground yourself from the fantasy, you have acquired baggage, so has she. You are different people, whether you realize it or not.

Logically and emotionally walk through the consequences: You both suddenly fall madly in love with each other. You cheat on your spouse, who has shared everything with you for two decades. You hurt your wife terribly, because she trusted you. You betrayed that trust. Now Imagine she did that, put yourself in her shoes, and not for just a quick thought. Really think about how you would feel if you encouraged her to be strong and grow (as you have for 20 years one hopes). And she leaves you for a childhood fantasy from over 20 years ago. Think about how much that would hurt you. Think about the repercussions. Think about what your friends and families would think and how they would react to her leaving you like that. After all that can you really consider doing that to her?

Recognize that it is just a fantasy. Think of all the time you would have wasted by throwing what you have built away.

And if you still want to meet her and catch up and risk trying to create a PLUTONIC friendship with her.... Here is my advice: BRING YOUR WIFE. It will make your position clear to the old flame. when you meet, focus yourself on talking about the life you and the wife have had together and about how great she is. And in your head focus on the flames defects, find defects, everyone has them. Remind yourself that the woman your with has compromised and ignored your faults helped you grow, as you have helped her. This old flame has been out of your life for two decades and isn't in a relationship. That is a giant bright red flag, you may have moved past the issues you had growing up. She may have not grown at all.

Personally I wouldn't risk it, but if you do focus on how much you love and don't want to hurt your spouse and destroy everything you have built together. Once you break that trust, you may Never get it back. (How much would you trust her if she banged an old flame, or left you and then tried to come back?)

Yeah, tabs are like to do lists. This stays open until I complete the task, purchase, or learning journey I was on.

I use this as regularly as possible. It is so absolutely on point. It cuts them to the quick.